LOVING IS SUBTLE DIALOGUE

 As a women, Your poetic heart and individuality cannot 

                      be satisfied only by biology.

     A woman seeker once asked me: "I have never been loved by a man. Either there is a very strong sexual connection, but without loveliness there is caring, or there is caring and understanding but sex a does not' happen I want much to connect with a man in totality that I am always looking."

      It is one of the oldest problems human beings have faced Our fancy is about pure love, care, concern but human biology a different programmed  It has no concern with your pure love or caring. its concern is to reproduce the species, Biology is purely sexual.

      The effort is going to fail if you want a love which is non-biological.and the problem becomes more complicated. The woman can perhaps wait, because her sexuality is passive sexuality it is spread all over her body It feels immensely joyful to her just to be cuddled, loved and cared. Sex seems to her to be something lower, animalistic.

          But one has to consider man also. His sexuality is localized. One thing: it is not all over his body And second: it haste be aggressive.

                                                     O S H O  SPEAK

1   You may yearn for pure love, care and concern, but your   biology is purely sexual in nature

2   Men and women look at physical intimacy differently it is impatience versus patience

3   What is the art of love? If you are loving and caring, you can create synchronicity in the man also

      

    The Woman’s egg waits inside - it can wait for infinity -but the man's sperm cannot wait that long.

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